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Hello,
It took courage to be bold and share my story. Read the real, raw feature story published by Rochester Woman Online Magazine thanks to Kelly Breuer. May it encourage and inspire you. It’s possible to make your dreams a reality.
Tell me your goals and dreams. It would be my pleasure to help you.
Much Love,
I agree with this Helen Keller quote, “Life is short and unpredictable. Eat the dessert first.”
In my book, The LORI Factor: Live the Life You Were Born to Live, there is a chapter called, Lifestyle: Start Living Life on Your Terms.
I know I wasn’t, until I made different decisions. As a result, I stopped letting life happen to me. I stopped allowing other people’s opinions become my reality.
I remember when somebody mentioned something my mother said. I said I hadn’t talked to my mother that day. He said I meant your mother’s voice that’s in your head. Whoa! He was right. I loved my mother, but many words she said were not the truth. A phrase I kept hearing from her was, “You can’t do that,” and “Your sister would be the one to write a book.” Hearing that repeatedly programmed me to believe it.
Note: Be careful who and what you believe, or you will be deceived.
Thankfully, I learned to tune into a higher voice of the One who taught me my voice matters and that I can do anything that I put my mind to, like writing books. Renewing my mind, changing, and upgrading my thoughts and words were the beginning of living life on my terms.
The Serenity Prayer says: God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference.
These powerful words made a big difference, “This is my command—be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid or discouraged. For the LORD your God is with you wherever you go.” ~ Joshua 1:9 NLT
Focus on the things you can control. You can’t control the past. Be present. Get unstuck. Instead of resisting change, embrace it.
That doesn’t mean accepting everything being dictated around you. Stand up for what’s right. Unmask yourself. Let your voice be heard.
I used to feel invisible and was taught to be quiet and not to interrupt until I got a LARGER vision of myself beyond what people told me and beyond my circumstances. It’s time to speak up and let my voice be heard because you need to hear this message of hope, encouragement, and empowerment.
By the way, it’s not a coincidence that you are reading or hearing this right now. “For I know the plans I have for you,” says the LORD, “They are plans for good and not for disaster to give you a future and a hope.” ~ Jeremiah 29:11 NLT
Paint a picture in your mind of what your best life looks like. Hold that vision, write it down, and make it plain, as it says in the living Word of God in Habakkuk 2.
Keep it before your eyes.
When you can visualize the life you desire, it puts you in the driver’s seat. Visualization is a powerful tool. What do you love? Where are you? What are you doing? Who is with you? See it, hear it, taste it, smell it, and feel it.
Be specific. Picture your dream vacation or dream car, for example. Soon your dreams become reality. Take action. I put myself in the driver’s seat on a boat recently. I have been writing more and getting articles published. I am a travel writer and am stepping into that lifestyle.
Start where you are. Take yourself places in your mind first. Do things in your own backyard that are local.
I live in the “gorges” Finger Lakes region where there are beautiful lakes, waterfalls, and parks. Watkins Glen is a must-see place. From Canandaigua to Ithaca NY, I got to experience accommodations, adventures, relaxation, and amazing food including:
Capt. Bill’s Dinner and Sunset Sightseeing Seneca Lake Cruise
Summit to Stream where I took out an ocean kayak on Seneca Lake
Keuka Watersports at Champlin Beach in a kayak on Keuka Lake
Bed & Breakfast at Oliver Phelps was the first B&B in Canandaigua
Rogues Harbor Inn is a lovely historical B&B near Cayuga Lake
Corner Pub at Rogues Harbor Inn has great food and service at the Inn
Ciao! Was had authentic Italian food with Tuscan flair and delicious dessert
Ithaca Massage Station was a relaxing, pampering experience
NaturLuxe & Stars is where I had my first glamping adventure in style
Jerlando’s Ristorante & Pizza Co. has salads, Italian food & more
Nickel Pit’s BBQ has tender, tasty barbeque with warm service
True Love where I swooned over the schooner and talked to the Captain
I made a decision. I found a way no matter what my bank account or circumstances looked like. No matter to those trying to set me up to fail or making assumptions. No more putting my life on the back burner and taking care of everyone except myself.
Commit to your goals and dreams. Create your life by design. Writing, speaking, wealth, wellness, travel, and more are possible. Get on the road, on the plane, or on the boat to wherever you desire to go.
Can you see the person you are meant to be? Take the Journey to Hope and Transformation (which I talk about in my first book).
Get my book, The LORI Factor: Live the Life You Were Born to Live, for more ideas on how to live life on your terms.
Tell me the actions you took. The first action was you read this blog. Thank you and congratulations. What spoke to you the most?
Let’s celebrate each step together. Let me know how I can help. Choose life and live life to the fullest.
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Are you an author, speaker, coach, consultant, or podcaster?
This is for anyone who is discouraged, frustrated, lost hope and needs help or simply wants more out of life.
Tune into this message. Listen to the video interview to hear the complete conversation and experience I had with Kat. Grab your coffee or favorite beverage and join us.
This transcript below is a partial edited, easy-to-read version of the interview I had with Kathy White on her podcast, Koffee with Kat.
Kat: Happy Friday everybody and welcome to Koffee with Kat. I hope that you all have some coffee. I have my coffee mug here.
I am super excited because we have Lori Bruton on the line. She is going to talk about her book, The LORI Factor.
I’m going to let Lori introduce herself. All right Lori, can you tell the audience who you are and what you do?
Lori: Yes. Hi I’m Lori Bruton.
Speaking of coffee, I always like to say my last name is like brewing a ton of coffee. That makes it easier to pronounce.
I am an author and speaker. Some people call me Queen of Hope. I’ve loved to write ever since I can remember.
I’m excited to share my message today with all of you.
Kat: Awesome. I know that your book is called The LORI Factor. Where did you come up with that name?
Lori: That’s a good story. Yes, the title is The LORI Factor: Live the Life You Were Born To Live.
The idea was born with Les Brown. Some of you may be familiar with Les Brown. He’s the international number one motivational speaker. He actually wrote the Foreword to this book.
I was at a virtual networking event. I got the opportunity to be interviewed by him and ask him a question. He asked me, “What was a defining moment in your life; a time where after that nothing was ever the same?”
When I look back at what popped into my head; the thing that came to my mind, oh my. It was live, in person, raw, and real.
That is where I told him about a story that happened to me, and life was never the same after that. From there, he called it The LORI Factor. He took the letters of my name L. O. R. I. and gave each letter a meaning. I can go into that now.
Kat: Yes. Go for it.
Lori: “L” is for Larger vision of yourself. You need to have a larger vision of
yourself despite your circumstances and where you are now.
“O” is for Optimism. Having an optimistic spirit that you can do anything. It’s possible.
“R” is for Reinvent yourself. You can take where you are now and make a whole new life for yourself if that’s what you want.
“I” is for Invest in yourself. Bet on you because you’re an asset so invest in yourself.
Those are the main points of L.O.R.I. in The LORI Factor.
Kat: Oh, I love that. You said that the book is about giving people hope. You’re basically reigniting their hopes and dreams and giving them a place to read because of the stuff that you’ve went through.
Is there anything in your life that you want to share without giving your book away?
Lori: Yes. It just came to mind, and I feel this is a good time to talk about this in general but especially this time of year. We’re in December right now. It can be a joyful time for many and yet it can be a really hard time for others.
I know the suicide rate is higher now than ever before plus what’s going on in the world. I, myself, went through a time where I felt hopeless. If you lose hope, then you wonder, why am I even here? You think people would be better off without you. You think there’s no way out.
But suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
I want to give anyone who’s in that spot right now or if you know of anyone, there’s still hope; just hang on one more minute.
That’s the biggest thing is hope. You have a purpose. Your life does mean something even if you don’t know what that is right now.
You were born and created for a purpose. We need you.
Even if you don’t see it right now, you’re here for a reason. I really want to urgently say that and give that message. Choose life!
Everybody has a story and a message. Even if you don’t think it matters or it’s not important, somebody needs to hear your voice.
Our voices need to be heard. That’s one thing that I talk about in my book. I talk about how I was always quiet and invisible and known as ‘quiet little Lori.’
It took me a long time to get brave and speak up. Once I did, sometimes I got shut back down again. Then somebody told me that I reminded them of a turtle, because when I got brave and wanted to say something, I’d come out of my shell and speak up.
I used to stay quiet out of fear. Now it’s a choice when I go into my shell. I don’t stay there too long.
Be brave and have hope.
I talk about a lot of stories that happened in my life. You’re not going to believe some of these stories. You’ll be like, “She did what?”
Here’s a good place to say I’m glad I’m not that person anymore. God didn’t give up on me. I gave up on myself for a little while, but I’m still here. I’m glad I’m able to talk to all of you today.
Stories show that you can be in the darkest place or even a silly place or whatever kind of place, and there’s always a way out.
You’re an overcomer!
People called me that; you’re an overcomer. Huh? I didn’t see myself that way until I looked back on the things I’ve been through and I’m still here to talk about it.
You can overcome even though it might not look like it right now or even if you don’t know how. There’s a way.
Having that belief and keeping the hope, the how will come later.
Kat: That’s awesome, Lori!
Kat asked me to read an excerpt from my book. I chose the part that starts with, “This book has the potential to become the avenue to your miracle…”
That excerpt goes on to say… “I wrote this with love. Come with an open mind and heart. Let this message not merely inform you but transform you.”
Find the hope and help you need from me. What does that look like? Maybe some of you want to read my book. You can get a copy here: https://thelorifactor.com/
Do you need a speaker or a virtual assistant who specializes in writing? Do you need help creating or repurposing content that will expand your business and those you serve? Those are services I provide.
Text “VA” to my text only number: 1-844-394-4798
This blog also serves as an example of my skills such as transcribing videos (and audios), writing in a conversational tone, creating content for blogs, social media posts, and more.
I look forward to hearing from you so that we can create massive value and impact together.
Thanks for stopping by. May you be filled with hope, love, and joy.
Here’s to your happiness and success in all you do. I’m here to help you.
In Gratitude,
Lori
Hey Snail, what’s your story?
What made you show up at my house?
Do you have a message for me?
What can I tell from your attractive spiral shell?
Could it be that I am going in circles?
Am I going too slowly?
A snail’s pace is often an accusation of laziness.
But, what if, it’s a sign to slow down and rest?
You are a gentle creature who comes in peace.
Wherever you go, you are at home.
How do I know? Because you carry your home with you.
You make your own trail and travel at your own pace.
You bring a message of patience and I’m right on time.
No need to get caught up in the ways of harried humans.
I’ll take a clue from you and will not participate in the pressure.
What else may I glean from your visit? Ah, it’s time to pivot.
Look at potential dangers and what’s not working.
With a shell of safety and protection, explore a new direction.
You appeared to me so that I could see your mobility.
I stopped to observe and consider other possibilities.
I ask myself what are my undiscovered talents and abilities?
Speed is not the key to success.
Your colorful, spiral shell reminds me to cherish each season.
Life is fragile. I am here for a reason.
Thank you, Snail, for crossing my path when I have much to handle.
You showed me your mobile home, and how to survive alone.
There is a time to be still and a time to move, help me find my groove.
Greetings,
It’s time to be strong and courageous. No more waiting.
Zig Ziglar said, “You don’t have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great.” Can you relate?
How many of you have goals and dreams you want to achieve? I didn’t know speaking was one of mine. We all have a story to share. Let your voice be heard.
I decided to let my voice be heard. It may not be polished and perfected yet, but my message is authentic and vulnerable. May my message impact many lives.
What are you pursuing or holding back in doing? No more fear or self-doubt. Be fiercely unstoppable. People are waiting for you to step up and be heard, whatever that looks like for you. Dip your toe in and tune in to many amazing speakers. I am privileged to be one of them.
I invite you to join this community of like-minded people working to grow their businesses and sharing strategies and methods that work.
Are you an entrepreneur or want to be? You may be an author, speaker, coach, copywriter, branding expert, software developer, web designer, or personal chef. The point is that you’re the one who makes all of the decisions for your business. That can be a lot of pressure sometimes.
You still have time to virtually attend The Fiercely Unstoppable Entrepreneur Summit this weekend. I am speaking about The LORI Factor on May 1 at 9:15am EST. This event is hosted by Dr. Elizabeth Clamon.
It would be plum pleasing pleasure to have you there. Get your complimentary ticket here: https://bit.ly/LoriSummitMay2
Much Love and Success to you,
Lori
